You have much more to gain than you do to lose.] Thank you for taking time to stop by the blog and reach out. Archived. Sometimes God removes someone from your life = Fool me Once Shame On you, Fool me again Shame on me. Don’t allow them to be here in your mind, muddying your present moments. In short, how do you let go of past hurts and move on? The person you thought would love you more is the one you never thought would hurt you so much. If you are around people for very long, you will end up hurt by someone. Some of the characters who enter have short roles to play, others, much larger. Here are 5 Things To Do When People Hurt You… Waiting for you is like waiting for rain in a drought -useless and disappointing. My goal is to deliver practical content to encourage you in your relationship with God. When things go wrong between two people, something has got to give. [When you love someone, it may feel like you're giving away a part of yourself, but really you're simply allowing that part of yourself to go out into the world and grow stronger. Originally posted by mactoons. So we have seen that Satan’s trickery and Adam and Eve’s wrong choices introduced suffering into the world. We all face suffering in some way, shape or form. Reasons Why You Should Never Go Back To Someone Who's Hurt You. 37. Oscar Wilde “ The pain of yesterday is the strength of today. Your past patterns of dealing with being hurt are not those you want to continue. It takes time. Depending on God is one of those things. I feel like God brings us closer to certain people because these are the people we need in our lives right now. The pain cut deep. Each of these three “wills” is the will of God. I want to share with you how I believe God wants you to respond when hurt happens. Someday, you may run into someone who has just been through what you have been through who needs a friend and someone to talk to and you will have been there. “[. a great affirmation, and reassurance for me today in choosing a transparent lifestyle of love and sharing our dreams with the world. But forgiveness doesn’t mean you need to keep that person in your life. Romans 12:19 ESV / 12 helpful votes Helpful Not Helpful. Why doesn't He provide any peace, comfort, strength, etc for these people? In contrast, God’s design in allowing certain satanic attacks is always good; God loves His children (1 John 4:16). Feb. 11, 2015. What a loving god we have, allowing someone to hurt you to teach you a lesson... 8 comments. Lord know’s she doesn’t deserve another victory. Don’t let anyone’s pain, drama, ignorance, lies, or closed mind stop you from being the person you are meant to be. No one can hurt you unless you let them. 28. “Listen to God with a broken heart. God is never going to tell a lie and hurt you. Your past history and all of your hurts are no longer here in your physical reality. 6 Bible Verses to Help Forgive Someone Who Hurt You Lean on God to guide you in the process of forgiveness February 12th, 2015 Sarah Ortiz Bible Blog. 2. Sometimes a very long time. You will understand them and it will certainly help. Joseph faced many satanic attacks in his lifetime, but in the end he could speak with confidence of two opposing purposes behind the same events: “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good” (Genesis 50:20). I am by no means an expert at dealing with hurt in the church, but I have experienced hurt in the church. You can forgive someone for cheating. I remember the last time someone really hurt me. Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option. In our pain, we long to know why God allows grief and hardship into our lives. But when you’re able to allow God to change your heart, it is so completely freeing. Especially when it’s a parent, spouse, or someone you just can’t cut out of your life so easily. In the words of J. Cole Instead, if someone yells at you, let them yell, it makes them happy! Lmao. I hope things get better for you. God, who cannot lie, promised long ages ago” (Ti 1:2). First, pray. Please help me. I believe that a life lived well needs a growing and intentional connection with God through Jesus Christ. Paulo Coelho “ Do not suppress it - that would hurt you inside. An old Tank friend came through and poured his heart out: Dear Glenn, Why would God let Christians get to the point where they commit suicide? Oh, Melta! share. When we choose to pray for the person, we start to see them how God sees them and allows us to begin healing. In other words, He allows people to violate His moral will, and so people lie and steal. Posted by 1 year ago. It’s hurting again. If you never had a problem, you'd never know God could solve it. Take a look at these reasons why you may want to forgive someone who hurt you: If someone has recently hurt you, you’ll know just how painful and arduous the process of recovery can be. Even if you know how to let go of someone you love and follow all the steps, don’t expect to feel better immediately. It doesn’t mean that you open the doors to your life and give them the key. Take it to the bank: “ God is not a man, that He should lie” (Nu 23:19). If you can come in and out of romance without pain or remorse, something sounds out of sync. These are the people who will either teach us important lessons about life or about ourselves. 0 1. unstr810d. 4. You may not see the forest for the trees when it comes to forgiveness, but there are valuable reasons why you should consider forgiveness as one of the options related to your anger, sadness, or other emotions tied to your situation. How could God let Christians hurt to the point of suicide? “If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.” – Shannon L. Alder. If someone hurts you, you can either love them and stay or you can choose to leave them and love yourself. I’m not saying you have to be besties, but forgiveness is key. 29. This doesn’t mean you have to be ruined by every breakup, but there should be a sense that this isn’t right — it’s not how it’s supposed to be. Grieving is normal and you need to allow yourself the necessary amount of time to feel your emotions. These are things that I had to do in my own life to overcome church hurt. “There’s only so many times you can allow someone to let you down before you will no longer tolerate being disappointed. Instead, choose to utilize this painful situation to be a better version of yourself. In addition, it is the will of God to allow sickness, tragedy, natural disasters, etc., to occur. .] “You have to let go of who you were to become who you will be.” – Candace Bushnell. God did not cause suffering. Through this I think we must be honest with God and tell him that we are struggling not to hate the other person - we need help with that. What a loving god we have, allowing someone to hurt you to teach you a lesson... Close. Same with fighters: some die, some get hurt, some go on. Don’t let someone else’s mistakes make you someone you never intended to be. But forgiving someone doesn’t mean you allow them a free passage back into your heart. God has a great future planned for you and He can’t give it to you with dysfunctional people around you messing it up. If God says it, it’s true. You get to the point where you get tired of being the only one trying to fix things, it’s not giving up, it’s realizing you had enough. 1. 35 Bible Verses about Letting People Continue To Hurt You. Hearts weren’t built to be borrowed. So why does God allow suffering? “It is impossible for God to lie” (He 6:18). Help me to understand how much you have forgiven me, so I can forgive the person who has hurt me. The Bible says in Psalm 119:71: "It was the best thing that could have happened to me for it taught me to pay attention to your laws." Believe it or not, there are ways to deal with people who have hurt you. In an interview, Governor Robert List talked about the good times at the MGM only 24 hours before. You just don't let yourself believe it will happen to you. That’s easy to do in our own strength. . Not only was I hurt, I was humiliated. If you do that, you’re only allowing the person who intentionally hurt you to win. 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